I think you need write the letter despite how it sounds. This situation should not be allowed to continue, and you can write eloquently enough to get your point accross without offending anyone. I would certainly mention the numerous incidents and be specific. My Grand-daughters education is more important to me then being concerned about hurting someones feelings.
Love,
Dad

I agree that you need to write the letter whatever way you have to write it. Your child is your concern and she is entitled to a civil environment in school. If a single child is depriving her and the rest of her classmates that possibility then that child needs to be moved to a different setting.
And I really feel bad for your daughter...poor kid! How can she possibly succeed under such hostile circumstances>

Heh. This is whatchoo do.

Write a letter to that bastion of great publication - the Stars & Stripes Opinion column, and blast DoDDs schooling for tolerating the destructive tendencies of some spazzing fucking retard. DODDS Schools are the epitome of inept bureaucratic management left uncheck in my opinion and deserve all the public humiliation in the world (next to AAFES of course).

Or, just beat that fucker's ass the way Billy Bob Thornton did in the movie BAD SANTA, and then flush his head in the toilet for good measure.

Heh.

I say just go straight to the top and tell them exactly what's going on. If they don't have the resources to provide the fucked up kid with the special attention he needs, then they need to reassign his family somewhere else.

As a longtime teacher I can tell you exactly why people like that are treated so special and people like your daughter are ignored when their rights are trampled. It's very simple. Threats of lawsuits. Money talks. It's truly a sad state of affairs.

Truthfully I agree with your Dad and "Machine". Go to the school director, (in person, don't waste a piece of paper you know is going to line someone's trash basket..) and tell him or her exactly what the "disturbed" child is and has done. Make damn sure that the teacher of this class and the parents of this child, have their asses sitting in the seats next to yours. And tell them exactly what takes place..(but don't be surprised if they are not totally informed as to daily goings-on...or they give you that "deer in the "headlight"look).

It's high time that the military come of age and start running thier schools accordingly. If there are special need students, then stop being so friggon cheap and provide the proper education for those kids and let the normal kids get the education that they need without the hollaring and fucking fits. The government spends millions of dollars building brand new housing with all trimmings; they even build new schools. But the cheap SOB won''t bring in the proper and educated teachers that are needed...THEY DON'T HAVE THE FUNDS TO PAY FOR THEM. For fuck sakes people.

We have a Lt Col. here at Ft. Huachuca that likes that good saying of the militazry doesn't have the $$$. So he put out an article that he was authorizing the closure of the West gate. Well the west gate is the only way for folks who live in Sononta and Elgin and places beyond, to get to thier places of work or the retired fols to get to the commissary or pharmacy. By going all the way around means a 45 to 60 minute commute. His reasons were that the government did not have the funds to pay the security company who employ "wanna-be-mp's". He changed his tune when one of those "retired people" happened to be a retired 2-star general. He basically told them that it was time that the MP's started earnign thier pay..PERIOD!!

My point in all of this is that the military need to start doing whats right. If the school does not have the resources to provide this special child with his own level of education, then they need to either home school the little autistic bastard or provide an educator that can work with him at home, or re-assign the family to an installation where his education needs can be given and his special needs dealt with. Perhaps a petition to have this little bastard removed from the classroom will raise some eyebrows and get some attention brought to the situation.

My Baby Girl's happiness and education is far more important than some "special needs" turd. The rantings and ravings of his parents also need to be dealt with too. You can bet that his folks have alot to do with this shit.."WE WANT OUR CHILD TO BE TREATED JUST LIKE ALL THE OTHER CHILDREN"..SOUNDS LIKE THEY ARE RETARDED TOO AND MAYBE IN DENIAL, and need to have a wake up call.

I think if you put yourself in the other child's parents' shoes, you'd probably be GLAD that there's another person out there fighting for that kid to get the resources he needs. That kid is in that classroom because of a lack of resources, not because it's good for anyone. Autistic children are very very very difficult to raise, and it's even more difficult to get help doing it. I've seen a very good friend of mine have to fight the system every step of the way to have the lovely autistic kid put in the situation that the state law says he is due. And that's back on the mainland, so I can only imagine your plight.

First let me tell you how sorry I feel for your little girl. What she's going through is awful.

That boy needs to be taken out of the mainstream classes & put into a special needs class (preferably one with a padded room). The excuse of not enough money is just plain baloney. The US spends more than enough money on education.
What they need to do is fire a bunch of dead weight school administrators & put that money into the classrooms.

Unfortunately, as the mother of a "fucked-up kid" (to quote someone above), I have to tell all you people who are attacking that kid to go to hell.

My child has a genius IQ and tests in the top percentiles on all the standardized exams. She is also bi-polar. So, if the schools had isolated her from the same educational opportunities as the "normal" kids, think of the waste.

Disgruntled... I can relate the the bi-polar thing. I AM bi-polar. I don;t suppose your genius child feels the compulsive need to hit, kick and scream at the other children, and destroy their property? A few emotional/educational needs is one thing.

A kid who compulsively just flies off at least once or twice a week is another.

Heh. Disgruntled.

Nice to hear your kid's a genius - have the fucker solve global warming or some horseshit like that and the kid will be redeemed in the eyes of everyone who has had to suffer its psycho-somatic tendencies.

As for myself, I don't give two shits if you're the fucking high school janitor or a rocket scientist - if you act like a twat in public, you should be singled out and humilated. You can use every excuse in the book to justify behavior - it doesn't hold merit with me. Sorry you got dealt a shitty hand and all but honestly most people don't wanna put up with that kinda shit.

Heh.

OK, when I hear "special needs", I think of some kid with a mental disability (whose fault it ain't)... not a little snot-nosed punk with an attitude problem (whose fault it is). Yes, the school system should spend more money on kids with REAL mental problems, but they shouldn't drop a single dime on some kid who can't behave himself. I'm sorry, but parents need to quit trying to be "best friends" with their damn kids, and stop nurturing their bad behavior. Not all kids that are Bi-polar grow up to become detrements to society. You can still teach your bipolar kid right from wrong, so don't use that shit to jusitfy his bad behovior. Moral of the story: Whoop your kids' asses when necesary, before someone else does... and it won't be considered child abuse.